Recommended Reading  
Setting the Captives Free by Rom Clark
A Christian resource for Domestic Abuse victims

The Verbally Abusive Relationship by Patricia Evans
Excellent list of the characteristics of Verbal Abuse
http://www.verbalabuse.com/page2/page2.html

The emotionally abusive relationship by Beverly Engel
Hows how to overcome unhealthy patterns

Why does he do that? By Lundy Bancroft
Inside the minds of angry men

Sarks Journal and Playbook Sark's Journal and Playbook offers a great release for drawing and letting all of the anger, imagination and ideas that often bottle up. Also a good tool to write about feelings and anything that helps.
http://www.amazon.com/Sarks-Journal-Play-Book-Place/dp/0890877025
The Courage to Heal Ellen Bass is a great author of several books; The Courage to Heal being one of them.  Her book for partners of survivors Allies in Healing is also extremely helpful.

Bass's books can be found at: http://www.ellenbass.com/books.php and can also be purchased in Borders bookshop (Dubai).
Breaking the cycle of abuse

Breaking the cycle of abuse http://search.barnesandnoble.com/Breaking-the-Cycle-of-Abuse/Beverly-Engel/e/9780471740599

Engel co-authored some of the books above and also has a good website, http://www.lauradavis.net/

Beauty for Ashes Beauty for Ashes and other books written by Joyce Meyer.
Helpful Links

Darkness2Light
Taalk
Rainn
SIA

The Verbal Abuse site by Patricia Evans: http://www.verbalabuse.com/page2/page2.html

Emotional Abuse
: http://www.thisisawar.com/AbuseEmotional.htm * critical reading

Confronting child sex abuse with courage: www.darkness2light.org

Help for adult survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse:
www.letgoletpeacecomein.org

Resource for childhood sexual abuse and domestic violence victims: www.prevent-abuse-now.com

Good info on protecting children against sexual abuse
: www.way2hope.org/child_sexual_abuse.htm

Learn how to take actions that protect children before they are harmed
: www.taalk.org

USA’s largest anti-sexual assault organization
: rainn.org/get-information/types-of-sexual-assault/child-sexual-abuse

For men and women 18+, who were sexually abused, Survivors of Incest Anonymous is a 12-step, self-help recovery program modelled after Alcoholics Anonymous. 
http://www.siawso.org